Tuesday, May 1, 2007

maryfran's obituary


Mary Frances Dannemiller Jarrold

Mary Frances died Saturday, April 28, 2007 after a long struggle with emphysema. She was born in Akron, Ohio on January 17, 1929. After attending Saint Sebastian School, she graduated from Old Trail High School in 1948. She attended the College of Saint Elizabeth in New Jersey and graduated from the University of Akron in 1952, where she was a member of the Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority.

Mary Frances spent the next 12 years as a stewardess flying for American Airlines and logged over one million miles. While living in New York City, she was a permanent member of the American Airlines Stewardess System Board of Adjustment, hearing stewardess grievance cases. This included time in 1962 when the stewardesses testified before the United States Congress regarding a pre-civil rights era contract rule requiring stewardesses to leave their jobs when they reached the age of 32 or became married. Her career spanned the transition between piston/propeller aircraft (Convair 240, DC-6, DC-7) and commercial jet aircraft (Boeing 707). After retiring, Mary Frances was a member of the American Airlines Kiwi Club, serving as vice president.

She married Jerome Thomas Jarrold in 1964 and lived in Easton, Connecticut until 1996. Following her husband’s death, she lived with family in Scarsdale, New York and returned to her Akron roots in 1998.

Mary Frances served as president of Citizens for Easton , the Easton Garden Club, the Parent Teacher Organization, and was active on the Parish Council for Notre Dame of Easton Church. In Akron, she was a member of the Saint Thomas Hospital Womens’ Board and Saint Sebastian Church.

She was an avid gardener, floral designer, tennis player, figure skater and sailor. She loved to sew and made many of her stylish clothes.

She is predeceased by her parents, Lawrence M. and Frances C.; her husband Jerome; two brothers, William J. and Frederick F.; step-son Steven Jarrold; and nephew, Joel Dannemiller. She is survived by two sons, William Lawrence of San Francisco, Thomas Edward of New York City; two step-daughters, Nancy Jarrold of San Francisco, and Wendy Robinson of Wallingford, Connecticut; three brothers, J. Lawrence of Grand Haven, Michigan, Thomas E., Sr. of Akron, and Edward P. of La Quinta, California; one sister, Dorothy D. Rogers of Santa Fe, New Mexico; three step-grandchildren; twenty-two nieces and nephews, and twenty-nine grandnieces and nephews.

A Memorial Mass of Christian burial will be held at Saint Sebastian Church on Friday, May 4, 2007 at 11 o’clock, followed by interment at Holy Cross Cemetary.

The family would like to extend their gratitude to the staff of the Akron General Medical Center.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Lung Association, 61 Broadway, New York, NY 10006; Hospice of VNS, 3358 Ridgewood Road, Akron, OH 44333; or Saint Sebastian Church, 476 Mull Avenue, Akron, OH 44320.

You can read more about Mary Fran’s life at maryfrancesjarrold.blogspot.com.

Monday, April 30, 2007

in lieu of flowers...

in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to:

AMERICAN LUNG ASSOCIATION
https://www.kintera.org/site/apps/ka/mt/createCard.asp?c=dvLUK9O0E&b=40733&en=guIPK1MKLjIUI2ORLeKSJ8NSLmLTK5POJjJ0KlP6E

or go to www.lungusa.org and click on "make a donation" and enter "Mary Frances Jarrold"

or call 212-315-8737 and speak with amina.

please make donations under the name of "mary frances jarrold"

HOSPICE VNS
3358 ridgewood road
akron, OH 44333

SAINT SEBASTIAN CHURCH
476 mull ave
akron, OH 44320
330-836-2233

some of my favorite pictures









maryfran never took a bad picture. here are some of my favorites.

more pictures will follow.

tom.

one of the many conversations i had with my mom

my brother and i were fortunate enough to have spent lots of time with my mom over the past months and years. earlier in 2007, i had many very difficult but wonderful conversations with her. one that makes us all feel better happened late one evening after a late dinner. mom was quite the night owl - always staying up until the wee hours chatting the night away. it was the night i brought mom home from her first visit to the hospital in early april 2007. we stayed up talking until 3 am believe it or not.

i talked about how much i was going to miss her, she held my hand and said "you don't have to cry." she teared up herself and said she would would miss us all, especially bill and me, but that she would be happy to see all the people she hasn't seen in a while. she lit up and mentioned seeing evelyn, her sister-in-law and one of her dearest friends. evelyn was perhaps closest to her in her final years. she mentioned seeing her brother bill, brother fred, her mom and dad, "daddy" (she called our father "daddy"), molly and margo (our dogs when in connecticut). she said she'd probably stick her tongue out at daddy, but then softened, saying it would be great to see him again.

i hope she's up there now having a great time with them all. and one day perhaps we will be seeing her again.

tom.

memorial for maryfran

a memorial service for maryfran will be held on friday, may 4 at 11AM at the saint sebastian church at 476 mull avenue in akron, ohio.

burial will follow immediately at the holy cross cemetary, 100 east waterloo road, akron, OH 44319.

thank you.

Saturday, April 28, 2007

january 17, 1929 - april 28, 2007


mom died early saturday morning at 1:25AM at akron general. my brother bill and i were at her side until the end. i was holding her hand and talking to her. her death was peaceful. her breathing gradually slowed and became inconsistent. her struggling subsided.

earlier that day (friday), her breathing was getting progressively harder and harder. she woke friday morning and we talked a bit. she ate a little food and tired quickly. she was slightly responsive at times. her breathing more and more difficult.

aunt dorothy flew in and made it to see her by about 4pm. mom was only slightly responsive by the time dorothy arrived, but i know mom could hear her and feel that she was there. mom opened her eyes when dorothy arrived. she knew she was there. francie, marguerite, and rose all stopped by during the day, too.

while this has been an exrutiatingly difficult experience, we're all happy that maryfran died a happy and content woman, with her family close to her.

i want to thank everyone that's been around here for maryfran and bill and me. we want to particularly thank the nursing staff at akron general for the compassion and care they gave my mom during her final hours, and we want to thank aunt dorothy for rushing to akron to see my mom before she died. she has truly been a great support.

tom.

Friday, April 27, 2007

friday morning

bill and i slept with mom at the hospital last night. she slept soundly. it seems we all woke up at the same time at 8AM. she was hungry, so i ordered her a little breakfast. she ate a little, and we had a nice chat. i told her aunt dorothy was flying up for a visit this afternoon and she smiled. she actually made a couple jokes.

she was pretty coherent, and i think she understands what's happening with her. she understands and reconfirmed her wishes to pass peacefully.

again, thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. both bill and i are truly great for the loving support we feel from our family.

tom.